Call Me by Your Name [Blu-ray]

Screenplay writer James Ivory won the Oscar for Best Adapted Screenplay for 'Call Me By Your Name'. It should come as no surprise he won, if you consider his prior collaborations with Ismail Merchant for 'Maurice', 'Remains of the Day' and 'Howard's End'...just to name a few. 'Call Me By Your Name' is not for everyone, just as 'Pulp Fiction', 'American Beauty' or 'Gangs of New York' were not either. That being said, if you give yourself permission to watch this film and open yourself up to the actual story being told, you may find yourself totally immersed in a very well-made film. The scene in the third act between the father and his son is both honest and full of parental wisdom. And if you are willing to sit through the last scene of the film (closing credits), the emotional gut-punch that comes from watching actor Timothée Chalamet react to Sufjan Stevens' song 'Visions of Gideon' will bring tears to your eyes, unless you have no heart. The simplicity of this film is its strength. Along with a high production level, wonderful ensemble cast and a soundtrack worthy of purchasing on its own, 'Call Me By Your Name' is one of those rare films where a small film in stature can overshadow larger, more noisy films from Hollywood. The purchase price is also an outstanding value.

Excellent movie. The acting was every good. This is one of those movies that can move the sole and make you wish just once you could experience a love so great that it would break all social boundaries.Update:I want to add that I am a movie buff and have been since I was a teenager. I always watch a movie several times to evaluate the acting, focusing each time on a different character. For me a great movie is one which takes me into the characters world. The characters must be believable. Does the movie affect the viewer positive or negatively. With all that said the characters of this movie are truly believable. Timothee Chalamet has the ability to say with body language and facial expressions unspoken words as does Armie Hammer. I could feel Elio’s pain and longing. I felt Elio’s nervousness the night Oliver finally gave in. I understood the guilt Elio felt the next morning. The book says in words what the viewer had to capture from Elio’s actions. Yet no guilt could stop the feelings that Elio had for Oliver and vice-a-versa. In life some things seem disgusting to think about but in the heat of the action everything is beautiful. There is an old saying the bedroom is undefiled. It is not a matter of what is right or wrong but was it given or taken from the heart. This movie ignited memories for me and my teenage years and the struggling with hormones. It brought back all my inhibitions the first time I participated in sex with another person. At that age so many things can go through your mind and nothing is more reveling or can create so much insecurity then our own nudity and experience. I would have given anything if my dad would have or even could have talked to me the way Elio’s dad talks to him. Why do we put so much pressure on youth and growing up? These two were bonded for years after, branded with an eternal love that they refused to act on. I hate that Amazon has labeled this movie “Gay & Lesbian” because a lot of people may not watch it because of that label. To all the parents out there the conversation between Elio and his father could change the relationship between you and your son or daughter forever. I would give anything to experience a love so great that it would override all inhibitions and stand time. I give it 5-Stars and highly recommend it.

This is the perfect movie for you. If you love romance it's sure to make you feel good

This story has caught me two weeks ago and left me in a deep, bittersweet sorrow that just wouldn't go away. In writing my thoughts down I hope I will soon be able to think of anything else.I almost wouldn't have watched this film. I had heard of it during the Oscars (nomination for Timothée Chalamet: didn't know him, guessed that maybe they just needed a new face for the category – stupid me). The story seemed interesting but also full of gay cliches: the young boy who likes classical music and plays the piano, the older and perfectly handsome guy, even antique statues – too much for me.Oh, how wrong I was.Until two friends of mine (both male and straight) told me that they had watched it together (funny situation, isn't it?) and said it was good. I watched the trailer and became interested, so I ordered the DVD. In the meantime I began reading the book. Until now, I have watched the film twice and begun reading the book for the second time.Long story short: It's been ages that a movie has moved me so much. The story may seem small and simple, and yet it is full of emotions conveyed by an entirely dazzling cast. Above them all, Timothée Chalamets performance is overwhelming and mesmerizing. Interestingly, it's scenes in which he has nothing to speak that touched me the most: The moment at Le Danzing where Elio watches Oliver and Chiara – you can see a ton of thoughts and emotions in his eyes, beginning from the cool-playing guy to the envy that he tries in vain to hide, to the deep sadness because he may never get what he desires here. Then there is the stirring scene when his mother drives him back after Oliver has left and he finally gives vent to his feelings. And of course there is the ending of the movie which I won't describe in detail because I don't want to spoil. Let me just say this: I am deeply grateful that Sufjan Stevens wrote two songs for the film and I love Mystery of love. But Visions of Gideon and Timothées performance made me cry my eyes out. That was truely worth an Oscar. And I haven't even mentioned the countless funny moments that Timothée gave Elio, which prevented the film from becoming cheesy or gaudy. But in the end, it's the whole cast that worked wonderfully together and made the film the gem that it is.It may be a story of two men falling in love but that shouldn't keep straight people from watching it – as the example of my friends proves. If you're gay you may relate a bit more to some details of the relationship (ps. if you are interested in details and want to unterstand the characters and the meaning of the title better, read the book). But it reawakens memories that almost everyone has gathered in his life: the first love, with all its uncertainty, wildness and desire, its beauty – and, sadly, also its sorrow. The film is pervaded by a strong, bittersweet beauty – everyone and everything is beautiful, it's a sunny holiday in the wonderful area of Northern Italy and there is no real danger, no „real problems“ – and yet the whole life as Elio has known it falls apart.„Call me by your name“ made me feel things I had forgotten for a long time and I am still deeply touched. The movie itself is like a wonderful holiday – and afterwards you are thrown into reality again and have to deal with your feelings alone. I like this bittersweet sadness I carry with myself. As Elio's dad said – you should let it happen. I have no idea which movie I could watch next, there is nothing that can keep up with that. I'm afraid that everything else will destroy this feeling.I have mixed feelings about the announcement of the sequel. Of course, I am glad that the whole team got along so well together and when I am honest to myself I have to admit that I need, need, need more of Elio and Oliver. More than strange fan-fiction on Instagram. But when you have read the book (which I higly recommend) you know that more sadness is ahead and, even after years, some wounds may never heal. On the other hand, Luca Guadagnino has mentioned that the sequel may not necessarily adhere to the book. But then again I am not sure what that will mean. Either way, the mood will most likely be completely different from this film.Well, that should not worry us right now. Let's implement the message of the film and enjoy the moment and what we have got, which is: this wonderful film.I haven't watched you for the last time.