Male Chastity - The "Key" To A Successful Female Led Relationship Paperback – November 12, 2014

I bought this book for my Wife a few years back. (It didn't work for us, but the book's advice wasn't the problem.)First, let's define two terms: FemDom (Feminine Domination) is about subjugating the male. FLR (Female-Led Relationship) is about a strong man dedicated to uplifting the Woman -- it's a very different mind-set. IMO, this book is right on the dividing line between the two (in that the man either has requested to try this, or has been neglectful and the Woman is willing/ready to have a divorce).I have (for now) skipped the lengthy "Michael and Janet" section of the book. Do NOT skip the subsequent "Tease and Denial Techniques" section!HOWEVER -- I'm going to recommend that the Woman read the book "Uniquely Rika" before implementing the techniques of this book. My Wife was much happier with that author's view of FLR than She was when attempting FemDom. As for Male Chastity -- well, we hit an insurmountable difficulty (it's personal).--------------------------------------Allegedly, the way to keep a man-in-chastity in-line is to indulge in strap-on sex no less than twice a month (once a week is recommended). "The Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Women, 2nd Edition Second (2nd) Edition" is recommended (Chapter 12 is specifically for the male anatomy).For strap-on items, go to "> Health & Household › Sexual Wellness" and search for "Strap-on" or "Dildos".As for Chastity devices for very-large men, go to "> Health & Household › Sexual Wellness › Bondage Gear & Accessories › Chastity Devices" and search for "Stallion".

Great introduction and guide to (FLR) Female Led Relationship. Also a good introduction to Male Chastity and how it can improve your relationship skills. Sexy read for both male and female and/or transgender. Insightful into a male’s libido and how women can take advantage of this knowledge to their enjoyment and a better relationship for them and their partners. Can also be an introduction to partner agreeing to cuckolding and more freedom for the woman while being exciting to her mate.

M. Benay knows her stuff.

As a male who has experienced chastity in the past, Mistress Benay has covered many of the techniques used to keep an inattentive male under control. I can tell you that her techniques really do work. A male will do ANYTHING to keep his keyholder happy so that he might have a chance to be unlocked, even if it's just for a few minutes. A few months ago, I was unlocked after a fairly extended stay in chastity, and am enjoying the freedom I now have. That said, after I'd finished reading this book, I found myself wishing I was locked up again!

Good ideas on using male chastity.There was too much emphasis on dominance, and over emphasis on its "necessity", including some things which I would consider to be bordering on abuse.

Chastity is something that intrests me very much. It is interesting to read books written by Dommes on the topic. Mistress Benay is very knowledgeable on the topic. As a submissive that has been locked for over one year, i agree on Her product reviews. i hope to get other books as they come out in paperback.

Mistress Benay does an excellent job explaining the why's of implementing a male chastity lifestyle. The book is well written, easy to understand,and gives specifics on implementation of the lifestyle. I especially liked the Example used with Roger and Kathy. I recommend the book.

Was so sure this was just another locked c**k" fantasy work I only ordered the Kindle version. While reading it began to wonder if my wife and M. Benay had collaborated on setting up my 14 years in chastity. The principles were nearly identical though a lot of the techniques were designed for my enlightenment and for her needs. Yes ladies, locking him up for real not play will do so many wonderful things for you and your relationship and in my wife's case, for her self-esteem and confidence too! For me it was either chastity and a whole lot of learning new ways and humbling, or move to the trailer pending a divorce. Glad I choose wisely.