God Where Is My Boaz: A Woman's Guide to Understanding What's Hindering Her from Receiving the Love and Man She Deserves

I have had brief personal chats with Stephan and I love his style of expressing himself and willingness to help. His continual display of empathy is very uplifting. So, when I see a book by him I must jump right on it. I found this book to be enlightened, compassionate, sincere and insightful for women that is Single and wishing to one day becoming a wife to a man of noble character. Though the book is an easy read, I kept finding myself stopping to digest the concept and to open my mind and heart to change; I actually had to vision what was written. I like seeing scriptures used in writing his book. Many things were a strong confirmation of things I am presently doing or have done, also an eye opening to things I must do! The story of Ruth and Boaz is well known to me with all its detail, he did not tell the story differently than I knew of. What was different is how he applied the story to today's living. He addresses dealing with the pain of the past and heals yourself and loving yourself. I was enticed and delighted because I was one of the Women he spoke up - Waiting for my Mr. Right. Thou I thought I was being active in my desire; I still had more to do. I had to get out of my comfort zone and make myself available was a confirmation of what I just start doing. Also as what I have found uncomfortable in dealing with in realizing how God's path for me maybe not be what I envision or whom. It was real talk about mating and picking the right man for me. I did have to say Amen and laugh many times because he was eliminating many ideas or excuses. Yes, he gave you another way of looking at things or things to consider. Instead of waiting to be a wife, he has me looking at things as thou I am a wife NOW. This has been strange; since I am single and not dating but I get his point (this will be an ongoing process). I really love the section about having a personal relationship with God (not religious). Seeking God in everything we do. I love that he how he laid the book out: The Story of Ruth & Boaz You Must Forgive & Heal, Then You Can Love Your Way Isn't God's Way You Expect God to Deliver a Man to Your Doorstep You're Too Occupied with the Wrong Man You're too Focused on What You Want God's Already Sent Your Boaz, You're Not Embracing Him God Wants You to Focus more on him More Questions & Answers Points to Remember I like how he seems to know what questions will be asked. He has a questions and answers sections after each section. I thought to myself, he does not have my one question listed but yes he did! Yes he spoke on a wide range of things facing Single women. It felt like a brother having a loving heart to heart conversation with his sister about being single, dating and getting married. Thanks I truly enjoy reading this book and found myself rereading it regularly. I had and am making changes in my life. I am a work in progress and the best is yet to come! I feel more empowered than before! Again thanks!

I thoroughly enjoyed this book. I have followed Stephan on social media for a couple of years but not had the pleasure of getting his books until now. I purchased the audible version but will also be reading it and replaying the audio again. He touched on some issues which really resonate with me as a single woman of God who is abstinent. To be honest, I often say I am in waiting but seriously by putting myself in a waiting process--I may have unknowingly limited myself from meeting potential Godly men for courtship. Also, my shyness with men can get in the way of developing a steady association let alone a friendship. I was raised old fashioned and it makes me feel strange to even greet a man I do not know...because I don't want him thinking I am thirsty (its based off my past experiences). I'm an all or nothing type. My assumption was because I was not willing to have sex before marriage that it was a major barrier to me stabilizing relationships with men I dated and found very attractive with 'good resumes' as Stephan put it. Now, I am reassessing myself. I haven't dated in about two years and do not want my 'prime' to pass by without considering the possibilities. The book could have touched more on developing yourself as a single woman but I think there are SO many books already out focused on that. It is imperative to hear a man's perspective on relationships and especially as they relate to our spirituality and well-being. Stephan is trying to connect to women who strongly desire marriage and feel they have did the right thing (in their hearts anyway) so why no man or God or no man at all? Lol, this book was a God send because it helped me realize I am blessed to be single and to NOT idolize marriage. I don't even care about a wedding anymore, the marriage is crucial! The woman of God should have already prayed concerning if marriage was something she truly desired on her own or if it was a societal pressure. At this point, I would be willing to accept if God has called me to singlehood but God did not call me to singleness. He called me to serve Him and whoever I marry should be doing the same. I had a recurring dream about a counterfeit man coming into my life--he seemed like a perfect catch but he ended up not being the man he presented himself as. God is allowing me this time to get my life together and get my emotions in check. This book also leads me to believe I may have already met the man but I'm not sure if I am ready to accept it...which opens up another issue. Sigh! Well God Bless Stephan for a well-written book...! I will definitely recommend it to my single friends.

I like the book. It has a good message overall. However, what I wish books like these would emphasize on the great opportunities that come with being single and how to cope with the possibility of being single for a lifetime. I may sound like a pessimistic, but I'm tired of focusing wholeheartedly for something that may not be God will for my life. I just want to genuinely enjoy my life without worrying about my future marital status. I hope to have a family on my own. However, this pass year I asked myself how I would I cope with life if I found myself still single ten years down the road despite all my best efforts. I've been single for long time and know others in my same position.It hurt to realize that there a possibility I will never get married. I don't believe in running away from things. So I am looking for books that not prepare you for new husband but also allow you to accept the present. I would like to hear from people who wanted to get married but found themselves single for most of their adult life. I want to hear how they coped with the disappointment of not getting married.

This is such an amazing read. It’s beautifully written and has become a staple reference I constantly return to. I’ve been following Stephan Labossiere for years, and I’m always inspired by the way he speaks—so thoughtful and impactful. Every piece of content and every book he releases is consistently on point. I’ve made it a personal goal to own all of his books. A must read for all women in any stage of life.

I began following @stephanspeaks this morning on Twitter because he had followed me. As I looked at his account, I began to see that Stephan was a relationship expert; however, with a biblically based backing. I purchased his book at 5 am and completed it by 7am. From page two forward I was hooked. I found myself nodding my head in agreement with many of the insights and principles Stephan offered. This book is not like other relationship books. The underlying message is that women should focus on God, rely on Him to guard their hearts and guide them in their relationship decisions, prepare to be a wife, embrace being single and the rest will follow. I enjoyed the book from start to finish. If you have teenage girls or college age women in your life, it's a great resource for them as well. I wish I'd had it when I was in my late teens and early twenties. Thank you Stephan for breaking down the biblical story of Ruth & Boaz, clarifying points, removing misconceptions and empowering women to seek God, self reflect, forgive and reconsider their Christian approach to dating.

I bought this book sometime ago and I never finished it. I started to read it again yesterday from the beginning and I finished today. I'm not one to cry over spilled milk, what's done is done. But had I finished this book before I got into the relationship that I recently ended after a year and had I listened to what God was trying to tell me. I wouldn't of went through what I did. God gave us our own free will to do what we want but that doesn't mean it's the right thing to do. I've learned so much reading this book and I know I have a lot more to learn. I am excited to be on this journey of getting closer to the Lord and finding my Boaz. But after reading this book and going back looking at my notes. I can't help but feel that God has already sent my Boaz. I'm so excited, I can't wait to see what God has in store for me as I patiently wait:-)

It sends a wonderful biblical message regarding the story of Boaz. For a single woman who has been through a divorce, or is not in the circumstances surrounding the biblical principle of how relationships are supposed to work in today's society, unfortunately some of the information seems far fetched as to say it might not be feasible in 2015 or years to come. Still it is an important message and concept for any woman who still believes, hopes and dreams of love and a relationship built on a stronger foundation, one that God has planned for us all.

This book helped me realize what I have been doing wrong. I pray 🙏 that it's not too late I will some day find my Boaz. Or even have a second chance with my Boaz that may have been in my life before. I want too say something all women who is looking for their Boaz . Remember never forget You first love " God.

Love it 🥰

Amazing book. I read plenty of books, Christian and not only, many about the subject of "finding Mister Right". But this book is absolutely the best I have ever read. Masterpiece. Very helpful. I found my blockages exactly discribed in this book. Two days after I finish book, I've got invitation for a date from absolutely right man. It's too early to write he is my Boaz but I never expected I will meet man like this with practical love of God in his life, with good heart, church involved, handsome and single. And he understands me completely, respect and cherish as it should be. The book showed me my mistakes and how to live in different way, letting the right man to find you without complications. The best book I ever had. When I started I was reading all night, amazing and thought-provoking!

Très bon livre

Good read

I have read a few books about relationships but the presentation and guidance in this book comes with compassion and understanding. I will definitely be telling my friends. It’s a must read for all who seek the right person in their life.