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A New York Times bestseller • A Washington Post 10 Books to Read in March • One of Cosmopolitan’s Best Books by POC for 2019 • A Refinery 29 Best Book of the Month ‘A gripping book. It's beautiful and very sad … The feelings are intense, and raw … It's a necessary story, brilliantly told’ Reader review, ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ ‘Etaf I cannot express my gratitude, love and respect for you enough for A Woman is NO Man' Reader review, ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ ‘Loved this book. Educational, emotive, sad, how many adjectives can I use. Highly recommended’ Reader review, ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ ‘This book is just amazing, an eye opener on the lives and struggles of so many people. A world unknown to many of us … A ‘must read’ that I will certainly re-read’ Reader review, ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ * * * * Three generations of Palestinian-American women living in Brooklyn are torn between individual desire and the strict mores of Arab culture in this heart-wrenching story of love, intrigue and courage. Palestine, 1990. Seventeen-year-old Isra prefers reading books to entertaining the suitors her father has chosen for her. Over the course of a week, the naïve and dreamy girl finds herself quickly betrothed and married, and is soon living in Brooklyn. There Isra struggles to adapt to the expectations of her oppressive mother-in-law Fareeda and strange new husband Adam, a pressure that intensifies as she begins to have children – four daughters instead of the sons Fareeda tells Isra she must bear. Brooklyn, 2008. Eighteen-year-old Deya, Isra’s oldest daughter, must meet with potential husbands at her grandmother Fareeda’s insistence, though her only desire is to go to college. But her grandmother is firm on the matter: the only way to secure a worthy future for Deya is through marriage to the right man. But fate has a will of its own, and soon Deya will find herself on an unexpected path that leads her to shocking truths about her family… Set in an America at once foreign to many and staggeringly close at hand, A Woman Is No Man is a story of culture and honour, secrets and betrayals, love and violence. It is an intimate glimpse into a controlling and closed cultural world, and a universal tale about family and the ways silence and shame can destroy those we have sworn to protect. * * * Praise for Etaf Rum ‘A love letter to storytelling’ New York Times ‘A nuanced look at the power of shame to shatter lives and send shards of pain hurtling down the generations … brilliant’ Big Issue ‘Enthralling’ Image magazine Review: Peeling cover - The corners of the book a bent and peeling. It’s not giving “new book” Review: J'ai adoré ! - J'ai adoré !

| Best Sellers Rank | #21,143 in Books ( See Top 100 in Books ) #80 in Family Saga Fiction #111 in Feel-Good Fiction #134 in Romantic Comedy |
| Customer Reviews | 4.6 out of 5 stars 2,485 Reviews |
K**Y
Peeling cover
The corners of the book a bent and peeling. It’s not giving “new book”
S**A
J'ai adoré !
J'ai adoré !
S**S
Beautiful written
Es simplemente hermoso. Ame la forma que describe la historia de Deya, Isra, Sarah y Fareeda. He llorado mucho tratando de entender que aun hay mujeres viviendo injustamente esto en estos e momentos.
L**F
Excellent book
I loved this novel One of the best I’ve read in 2025 Just get it, you will love it too
J**Y
Painfully Brilliant.
This book explores themes of generational trauma, culture, exploitation, misogyny, lack of freedom and much more, through the eyes of Isra, Deya (Isra’s daughter), and Fareeda (Isra’s mother in law). I personally think this book was one of my favourite reads of 2021 and it is so clear that it’s based on a true story. It felt way too real to have been completely fictional. The way this book angered me to my core is unreal. If this books doesn’t invoke anger to you at all, it definitely didn’t serve its purpose. It is an incredibly thought-provoking book and it scares me that these types of situations regularly occur to people in real life. It’s not an easy read, but you’ll learn so much from it; trust me. I would definitely recommend looking into trigger warnings before reading this as there are many mentions of suicide and domestic violence. I usually get through books like these in 3 days, but this book right here took me about a week to process (bare in mind that i’m 17yrs old). it’s a 10 out of 10 for me. Remarkable writing.
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