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When St. Jane Francis de Chantal encouraged St. Francis de Sales to be a bit angrier over the opposition they were facing in starting their religious order, he replied, โWould you have me lose in a quarter hour what has taken me twenty years' hard work to acquire? St. Francis de Sales had quite a temper when he was young. But over time he learned to convert his angry feelings into virtuous action. He knew that anger never leads to happiness. Worse, it causes tremendous harm to our relationship with God. In these pages, the wise Fr. Morrow shows you how to pull the rug out from beneath your anger and reclaim a life of peace and grace. You'll come to understand the root causes of angry behavior, ways to heal painful memories, and how to deal well with your hurts and humiliations. You're not likely to overcome blowups and anxiety through willpower alone. You need tools that help you cultivate the habits that lead to virtuous action. You'll discover here simple ways to influence your behavior, control your impulses, and rebuild tattered relationships. When you follow the simple advice offered in these pages, you'll be surprised at how quickly you're giving up all desire for revenge, forgiving those who hurt you, and finding peace in your life. You'll also learn: The difference between righteous and sinful anger. Why saying โWell, that's just the way I amโ could cost you your soul. The three root causes of every angry outburst The five stages of healing hurtful memories. How to discipline an angry child The three actions every Christian MUST take to overcome sinful anger. Review: Is my anger really justified? - This book helped me to put my anger into someone elseโs perspective. While I thought I was justified because other peopleโs words and actions โmade me reactโ, in reality, I was โbearing false witnessโ when my actions and reactions were completely controlled by myself. Fr. Morrow distinguishes between reasonable anger and sinful anger and gives a wonderful perspective on how, if unchecked, our sinful anger further damages relationships. This book is not meant for theologians or philosophers. It is meant for those who struggle in practice with managing their anger. If you are looking for a thesis paper this isnโt the book for you. If you are looking for a personable โhow toโ guide to help in a time of deep struggle this is for you. I learned from the insights in this book to help with my family relationships and friendships. I was not married nor in a dating relationship at the time so I can attest that this book is useful for the non-marital relationships, too. A word of caution, it takes only one person to confess but two to reconcile- this book enables you to do the former, unfortunately we canโt force anyone to do the latter with us. Thank you, Fr. Morrow- your book helped me on my journey to turn my life around and I am grateful to have had it as part of the process! Review: Great read - Have anger issues? This is a quick and easy read. It had some really good points for my personal issues.
| Best Sellers Rank | #359,187 in Books ( See Top 100 in Books ) #145 in Anger Management Self Help #186 in Catholic Theology #371 in Self Help for Catholics |
| Customer Reviews | 4.4 out of 5 stars 550 Reviews |
K**C
Is my anger really justified?
This book helped me to put my anger into someone elseโs perspective. While I thought I was justified because other peopleโs words and actions โmade me reactโ, in reality, I was โbearing false witnessโ when my actions and reactions were completely controlled by myself. Fr. Morrow distinguishes between reasonable anger and sinful anger and gives a wonderful perspective on how, if unchecked, our sinful anger further damages relationships. This book is not meant for theologians or philosophers. It is meant for those who struggle in practice with managing their anger. If you are looking for a thesis paper this isnโt the book for you. If you are looking for a personable โhow toโ guide to help in a time of deep struggle this is for you. I learned from the insights in this book to help with my family relationships and friendships. I was not married nor in a dating relationship at the time so I can attest that this book is useful for the non-marital relationships, too. A word of caution, it takes only one person to confess but two to reconcile- this book enables you to do the former, unfortunately we canโt force anyone to do the latter with us. Thank you, Fr. Morrow- your book helped me on my journey to turn my life around and I am grateful to have had it as part of the process!
A**R
Great read
Have anger issues? This is a quick and easy read. It had some really good points for my personal issues.
H**I
Very Helpful Book
My wife & I are not the most patient people, especially with each other. Thi sbook helped us to identify the roots of our frustration and anger, and offered several way to address those feelings to avoid doing damage to others. This book is not perfect. Actually the chapter on married couples was the low point for both of us in terms of usefulness. Also, the spiritual help overall was not as great as I had hoped & parts of the book thus read similarly to any secular self-help book. That was disappointing. Overall, we are both better off for having read it & recommend it to others with similar "anger issues," tough with a few reservations as mentioned above.
C**S
great, quick read and practical advice
Great, quick read for someone trying to overcome anger. Practical advice based in Scripture. I hope it helps you as much as itโs helped me.
M**H
It would be a five...
...If it wasn't for the chapter for married couples. My husband and I both had a good laugh. The author gives advice for wives to basically flirt with their husband when she's mad so as not to hurt her husband's manhood. Then to just shut up and take his anger. I can understand suggesting the wife not get nasty or mean when she's mad, but this advice seems to belittle the wife and her needs. The advice for husbands is to "listen" when she's mad and no advice on how he is to act when he is mad. I suggest you simply skip this chapter and read what could have been a five star book.
S**S
Direct and Informative
Direct information, to the point. Realistic examples. Explanations of why anger is sinful for the life of a Christian Catholic.
S**M
If Relationships Matter, It's Worth the Read!
Pathways of Learning on the Catholic Channel of SiriusXM radio will interview Fr. Thomas Morrow about his book, Overcoming Sinful Anger this week. It was an easy and interesting read. Whether the reader is challenged by his/her temper, or loves someone who is challenged, Fr. Morrow offers insight and practical advice that is hopeful. As an educator, I picked up valuable pointers that will help teachers and parents direct young people who struggle with inappropriate behavior due to ADD, ADHD, allergies, oppositional defiance, etc. It's a book about practical spirituality for the adult and youth. Mostly it is for the individual who wants better relationships. There are references to other authors who provide additional expertise. Great advice for dating and marriage. Read it! It's definitely worth the time and effort.
R**R
Good overview
Good points and tips. Sometimes I wanted more depth, but their author did give further reading references. I would recommend this book.
B**N
Very Practical Insights
Great book. It dissects anger as an emotion and gives insightful and practical ways to overcome sinful behaviour derived from it.
R**.
Great tool for overcoming anger
I was reading this book while consulting Spiritual Counsellor. This book really made sense about different types of anger and ways to deal with it. Perfect blend of Spiritual and Modern Science approach.
S**P
This was an excellent book. It also has a beautiful prayer inside ...
This was an excellent book. It also has a beautiful prayer inside that really brought great enlightenment. I would highly recommend this book. It is a great short read and a keeper!!!
K**L
Adicted to Anger
This is slowly killing me. Fr. Morrow's book was the way through that I had asked the Lord for. Great advice & help.
M**A
Nice
Nice value for money short and sweet content no nonsense content must read for people with anger issues. Passive anger especially
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