--- product_id: 27745724 title: "10 Smart Things Gay Men Can Do To Improve Their Lives" price: "AR$47156" currency: ARS in_stock: true reviews_count: 13 url: https://www.desertcart.com.ar/products/27745724-10-smart-things-gay-men-can-do-to-improve-their store_origin: AR region: Argentina --- # 10 Smart Things Gay Men Can Do To Improve Their Lives **Price:** AR$47156 **Availability:** ✅ In Stock ## Quick Answers - **What is this?** 10 Smart Things Gay Men Can Do To Improve Their Lives - **How much does it cost?** AR$47156 with free shipping - **Is it available?** Yes, in stock and ready to ship - **Where can I buy it?** [www.desertcart.com.ar](https://www.desertcart.com.ar/products/27745724-10-smart-things-gay-men-can-do-to-improve-their) ## Best For - Customers looking for quality international products ## Why This Product - Free international shipping included - Worldwide delivery with tracking - 15-day hassle-free returns ## Description Would the small gay boy you once were look up to the gay man you’ve become?This is the question Dr. Joe Kort explores in 10 Smart Things Gay Men Can Do to Improve Their Lives (completely revised and updated edition) as he guides readers through the complex journey of becoming a fully self-actualized gay man. Learn the five biggest mistakes gay men make when seeking a relationship. Understand how to deal with loved ones who disapprove of your being gay. Overcome damaging patterns that are holding you back from enjoying a healthy sex life. Learn how to identify your own internalized homophobia, a chronic issue that prevents many gay men from leading satisfying lives and keeps them from having healthy relationships.This updated and revised edition is more sex positive than the first edition and includes a new chapter on exploring erotic turn ons and sexual interests. Out-of-Control Sexual Behavior (OCSB) is also addressed for those struggling with sexual issues.After coming out, a gay man will typically feel better at first, but often the good feelings don’t last. This is because “coming out” is only part of the beginning of the journey. This book provides a map for navigating the whole long passage of becoming the gay man you want to be. Review: "How to Be Gay in an Intolerant World" - Frequently, "how to" books are really "how not to." This is not true here! Each chapter has a focus and is richly detailed with people and examples that support each concept and process introduced. Because he shares actual vignettes from his life, these become believable. Because he is also a gay man, this makes his advice valuable. If people are looking for punishment, reasons to deny their sexuality, or ways to reinforce their intolerance, this is not the book for them. This author is a middle aged man who has captured many of the emerging issues that are associated with aging gay men, a perspective I was actively seeking. He paints a clear picture of life: the great, the not so great, and the muck and mire. Nonetheless, his optimism encourages readers to make better choices in those circumstances they can, and to accept those things they cannot change. He provides us with some wisdom to know the difference between both. This book has been of help to me and for this, I am grateful. Review: Terrible title, amazing book - Let's be real, this title blows. It's awful. However, even as a gay guy who came out at 17 and had been out well over a decade this book has concrete and relevant advice. From figuring out why I'm always dating Mr. Wrong to why I still sometimes feel uncomfortable being gay, this book is real advice for real gay guys in the 21st century. ## Technical Specifications | Specification | Value | |---------------|-------| | Best Sellers Rank | #194,373 in Books ( See Top 100 in Books ) #1,411 in Self-Esteem (Books) #11,144 in LGBTQ+ Books | | Customer Reviews | 4.5 out of 5 stars 175 Reviews | ## Images ![10 Smart Things Gay Men Can Do To Improve Their Lives - Image 1](https://m.media-amazon.com/images/I/71xQJMHNS+L.jpg) ## Customer Reviews ### ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ "How to Be Gay in an Intolerant World" *by D***E on June 26, 2016* Frequently, "how to" books are really "how not to." This is not true here! Each chapter has a focus and is richly detailed with people and examples that support each concept and process introduced. Because he shares actual vignettes from his life, these become believable. Because he is also a gay man, this makes his advice valuable. If people are looking for punishment, reasons to deny their sexuality, or ways to reinforce their intolerance, this is not the book for them. This author is a middle aged man who has captured many of the emerging issues that are associated with aging gay men, a perspective I was actively seeking. He paints a clear picture of life: the great, the not so great, and the muck and mire. Nonetheless, his optimism encourages readers to make better choices in those circumstances they can, and to accept those things they cannot change. He provides us with some wisdom to know the difference between both. This book has been of help to me and for this, I am grateful. ### ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ Terrible title, amazing book *by T***G on February 6, 2018* Let's be real, this title blows. It's awful. However, even as a gay guy who came out at 17 and had been out well over a decade this book has concrete and relevant advice. From figuring out why I'm always dating Mr. Wrong to why I still sometimes feel uncomfortable being gay, this book is real advice for real gay guys in the 21st century. ### ⭐⭐⭐⭐ useful information *by J***S on January 10, 2024* It’s worth reading - there’s a lot that interprets people’s problems as all related to childhood. No doubt that’s the case for many people, but I’m skeptical it explains behaviors as much as implied here. In any, I’m not an expert and I’m grateful for the wisdom in this book. --- ## Why Shop on Desertcart? - 🛒 **Trusted by 1.3+ Million Shoppers** — Serving international shoppers since 2016 - 🌍 **Shop Globally** — Access 737+ million products across 21 categories - 💰 **No Hidden Fees** — All customs, duties, and taxes included in the price - 🔄 **15-Day Free Returns** — Hassle-free returns (30 days for PRO members) - 🔒 **Secure Payments** — Trusted payment options with buyer protection - ⭐ **TrustPilot Rated 4.5/5** — Based on 8,000+ happy customer reviews **Shop now:** [https://www.desertcart.com.ar/products/27745724-10-smart-things-gay-men-can-do-to-improve-their](https://www.desertcart.com.ar/products/27745724-10-smart-things-gay-men-can-do-to-improve-their) --- *Product available on Desertcart Argentina* *Store origin: AR* *Last updated: 2026-08-24*