At Her Feet

There really isn’t “one true way” and this book reassures readers that creating your dynamic is the best way for a long lasting relationship.Each section lays out the challenges of approaching life differently from the norm regardless of the titles used in the relationship. This acknowledgment of the challenges before offering any advice regarding is very beneficial and creates the opportunity to take the authors advice or not.

This is not a gimmicky book about how to spice up your sex life. This book has very good and legitimate advice if you are in or want to get into BDSM 24/7. This a great book to read if you are thinking about starting a M/s dynamic or are currently in such a dynamic and want some advice on how to make it fulfilling and healthy. This book covers the mundane ("vanilla") aspects of such a relationship as well as the BDSM parts of it. Highly recommend it for both Dommes (especially novice ones) and their Slaves.

While the book discusses a healthy M/S (mistress/slave) relationship I feel that all femdoms could benefit from reading this. While a D/S (dominant/submissive) may be your ultimate goal, this book discusses femdom and malesub in a very honest way. Both writers are educated, and focused on presenting a good product. I love how the Kindle version of the book where I can skip to footnotes effortlessly where TammyJo sources good books to further your femdom/malesub education.While the book does take a few chapters to really get to the point of discussing femdom the set up is well worth it.However, if you are a confident/experienced femdom who has experienced long term m/s relationships you may not enjoy this book as much as novice or beginner. This book at times can does have the feel of a self-help relationship book, but I enjoyed the fact it exclusively addressed the femdom set up.

I recommend this book for someone that is interested in creating and living in one of the several forms of D/s (Dominant/submissive) relationship. The book is well written, with very few grammatical and formatting issues in an accessible writing style.This book offers advice on how to create and live within a mistress/slave relationship, based on the experience of the author and her current slave. The author is very specific about using the term “slave” and is explicit that this is the kind of dynamic that works for her and their relationship. There is an implication that other forms of dominant/submissive relationships are somehow inferior, and if the “slave” term offends you this can be hard to ignore. They discuss their own personal journeys and experiences as they discovered their affinity for this type of relationship. The author is polyamorous and briefly mentions some of her past relationships and how they worked for her, and eventually stopped working .In several parts of the book the author spends some time talking about how she has a high profile in the kink/fetish community how their M/s relationship supports that. In my opinion that is gratuitous but for me it was relatively easy to get past and didn’t take away from the value of the book. The appendix has some sample contracts which are often used to define and memorialize a M/s relationship, as well as a list of their version of the slave/submissive positions.

Very informative

Your book has helped my marriage of 16 years get a NEW jump start -- our FLR is almost a year old and your life experience has helped us grow closer and more in love -- TY TJE ma'am -- K

This book is written well, easy to follow and is informative. I wouldn't say it is the best book I have read of femdom relationships, however it is helpful.

I liked the book, but thought it a bit too long!

A little bit academic language but further on well written. Good that this sort of books can be bought here.

This book is practical, realistic and a great support to newbies like us to augment our marriage to a d/s dynamic. Thank you or writing this book. It touched me to te core and helped to understand myself better.

Great look at FDomme/msub as a relationship dynamic and the mindset of both parties. Not erotica or fantasy but honest advice for a loving relationship.

Awesome, very well explained. Lot of tips. I enjoyed a lot the ride. I recommend. Easy to read. I liked

I actually haven't read this book yet but I'll get around to it eventually. Sounds nice though.